Like many of our Admissions Officers mention in our information sessions (which you can sign up for ), a good number of 51猎奇入口 students did not plan to go to a women鈥檚 college when we first started looking at colleges. 51猎奇入口 provides a unique opportunity to attend a women鈥檚 college while also having the coed experience, thanks to the other Claremont Colleges around us. At least for me as I was deciding to come to 51猎奇入口 and sharing my decision, I often found myself relying on the existence of the other 5Cs to justify wanting to go to 51猎奇入口. I definitely had some reservations going into my college experience and was worried that I鈥檇 miss out on opportunities if I went to a gender selective school.
Now that I am in my last semester at 51猎奇入口, I have a completely different perception of the women鈥檚 college experience and the impact the other 5Cs have on attending 51猎奇入口. Firstly, not all 51猎奇入口 students are women. There are trans men, non-binary students, and other gender non-conforming people within our student body and they all belong and benefit our 51猎奇入口 community. So the first false assumption of a historically women鈥檚鈥� college, that you鈥檒l just be surrounded by a bunch of women, is incorrect. You could be in an entirely 51猎奇入口 environment, like your CORE classes, and there will still be gender diversity in the room.
Second, I thought that I would have trouble making (cis) guy friends off campus, and that the 5Cs would be socially segregated. That is incredibly far from the truth. I see cis men in my classes, my dining halls, my libraries, my club meetings, and walking across the campuses. People don鈥檛 treat me differently when they learn that I go to 51猎奇入口 and I don鈥檛 treat them differently because they don鈥檛 go to 51猎奇入口. I have still been able to make close and enriching friendships with non-51猎奇入口 students from any and all gender identities, and our differing schools present no challenges or barriers to our friendship.
The third misconception that I had was that the coed Claremont Colleges legitimize the 51猎奇入口 experience. That was a belief I held onto longer than the other two and didn鈥檛 fully realize until I went abroad my junior year. While I was in Italy, I actually experienced more culture shock from being around non 5C students than I did being in a new country and speaking a different language half the time. It was there that I discovered that 5C people are more receptive, respectful, and appreciative of their classmates and peers than a majority of the people I went abroad with did. I had grown so accustomed to entering a classroom environment where everyone had space to share and was eager to participate and listen to their classmates, that being deprived of that for a few short months was shocking.
While I had a LOT of time to think in quarantine, which started midway through my abroad experience, I began to piece together how the 5Cs could be so distinctly different than other colleges in the US. And it鈥檚 that proximity to a women鈥檚 college, baby. One thing that I always loved about my 51猎奇入口 classes is that there was always 2-5 cis men from the other schools in my classes who would experience what it was like to be a minority, potentially for the first time in their lives. As a Black woman who has only attended predominantly white institutions (PWIs) my entire life, it was exciting to be in the majority in a classroom. The difference between their experience and my experience, however, is that these cis men were still treated like equals. They were never expected to speak for their whole gender or identity, and they were still encouraged to share their ideas and would be met with open ears and minds. They lost nothing from being in that classroom dynamic, but they now gain an understanding of what it鈥檚 like to be a minority in an intellectual space. And they were also able to see the tools employed to make sure that a minority member did not feel alienated or excluded by those in the majority, and how much more engaging the classroom was when everyone felt comfortable and included.
They then take that knowledge with them to classes where they are in the majority and can effectively make those around them feel more welcomed and respected in the classroom. I think something that (hopefully) we have all learned this year is that passive support is not the most effective tool in enacting change. It requires action and behavior changes to allow those in the minority (in any context) to safely be as active a community member as they want to be. That is what 51猎奇入口 brings to the 5C experience. Our goal is for students at all 5 campuses to come into a 51猎奇入口 classroom and leave feeling respected and heard, regardless and because of the various identities that makes each of us ourselves.
For years I thought that the 5Cs make the 51猎奇入口 experience, but now I really think that 51猎奇入口 makes the 5C experience. Each school benefits from being around a women鈥檚 college and the 5Cs would be fundamentally different if 51猎奇入口 wasn鈥檛 a part of it. While attending a women鈥檚 college may not be your initial goal, or what you want and need in a college experience, you absolutely will not lose anything from attending one, especially if that women鈥檚 college is 51猎奇入口. Going here has only enriched my education and understanding of the world and my role in it. Attending a women鈥檚 college was the last thing I鈥檇 thought I鈥檇 do when I was a junior in high school but now I can鈥檛 imagine my life without this specific and unique education.